ac tech wrote:so steady hand & soldering iron, here i come
You're really desperate aren't you.
I really think that your problem is that you have a limited number of resources available. Have you tried my suggestion of disabling the Infrared Port in device manager, then rebooting? In addition you may need to uninstall the IDE devices as mentioned before and reboot after uninstalling the Infrared Port. Another possibility, can you use a different DMA mode with either your hard drive or DVD drive?
I note that on my T42, my hard drive uses IRQ 14, and the DVD drive uses IRQ 15 (as seen in Primary IDE Channel and Secondary IDE Channel in device manager). What IRQ's are your drives using?
I had a 600E with DMA enabled on both the hard drive and the DVD drive. On this 600E I had the Infrared Port disabled. I did no other special tweaks that I can remember. I had the latest BIOS update, IBM driver updates, and Windows Updates on this laptop. This 600E was running Windows 2000 SP4. I suppose it is possible that your DVD drive requires more resources than mine did, but that wouldn't be my first guess.