OK...
1-I don't believe it's necessarily based on a memory manufacturer problem (although I will slightly contradict myself later in this post... lol). If so, then Micron-produced, Lenovo Branded (purchased direct from the Lenovo site) SODIMM don't work.

My two SODIMM from Lenovo are sequentially numbered, roughly 30 days old, and don't work together.
2-The statement regarding snabling the memory test is incorrect, I believe. This BIOS setting has nothing to do with enabling extended memory for DOS. Although "enabling" this setting in the BIOS will "initialize and test" extended memory, HIMEM.SYS does this for DOS, assuming there is no /TESTMEM:OFF flag in the HIMEM.SYS line. There are some OS's that are finicky about having the BIOS pre-scan the extended memory. HOWEVER, for fun, I DISABLED the Extended Memory Test in the BIOS and now my bootdisks WORK!!!! Yeah!!!! For the final test, I even installed DOSLFN and NTFSDOS drivers and they now work as well!!!! And the mem command indicates 64MB of extended memory.
So the net-net:
It looks as if Lenovo received a bad batch of early memory from Micron (at least in my case). As mentioned, I have two Micron parts purchased directly from Lenovo that were initially backordered. Both have a May 22, 2006 date stamp and are sequentially numbered. With both of these SODIMM installed, my T60 will simply lockup after a few moments or when initiating a 3D application. Either the SODIMM at 667MHz speeds are even more sensitive to timing and tolerances, and even the slightest variation causes problems, or there's someone along the way (Memory makers/Lenovo/etc) have incorrectly set specs. What do I know, though, since I'm not an engineer.
If all these problems stem from production quality, and varies even between batches of memory a single vendor produces, I think many ThinkPad owners are in for a long trial and error period finding the correct memory, or should I say, working memory when it comes to 2 1GB SODIMMs installed.
My final workable solution is to use 2 1GB SODIMM from Elpida (Japanese manufacturer,
www.elpida.com, purchased from Memorysuppliers.com--I am not affiliated with these guys in any way, but they do promise a 30-Day No Questions Asked 100% Satisfaction Guarantee--lol), BIOS 1.04, and many prayers to various gods/goddesses/high powers.
Daniel.
MacBook Pro 15" Retina Display / 2.6GHz Ci7 / 16GB DDR3/ 512GB SSD / Mac OS X 10.9.3