T60 not connecting to network from sleep/hibernate :/

[skanky]

im using vista ultimate and for some reason, when i return from sleep or hibernate, access connections, 4.42 iirc? doesnt automatically try and connect to my lan (wired).

anyone know how to fix this? or even what the problem is?
thanks.

edit: setting the preferred WLAN profile makes it connect as soon as i enter my password to get back in, but its then using the wireless LAN, which i'd rather it didnt by default. if i take it off, the connection order is "ethernet, wireless LAN" but doesnt like automatically connecting still!